What to do?

[Code Red]

So I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He is cool and all, but he just doesn't enjoy the same things I do. I enjoy sports and movies and he just likes to hang around read books and stuff. No big deal. So we haven't had much sex. Matter of fact, we haven't really had sex at all. I have given him a couple BJ's but that isn't really sex. I let him feel my tits once. Well the other night I was at a club and I met a real cute guy. We danced a little, and he could really move. So I started to feel very horny, as in I wanted that guy now, but I had an unwanted vistor and I really didn't want to explain it to the guy so I told him I had to go. He took down my number (he still hasn't called, but he probably will call today, the whole 3-day thing you guys do). Now what do I do about my Boyfriend. He isn't the love of my life but I really like him. Should I date both of them, my boyfriend and I have never asked to just see each other. It just turned out that way. Should I have sex with both of them or should I only have sex with one? Does it make me a slut if I do have sex with both of them? I am really confused. What should I do?

[Lord Summerisle]

Fist of all How old are you?? and do you live near the L.A area?

[Baadshah]

plz come to me

[Doomsday]

A) Don't have sex with either of them, because you don't sound in love with your boyfriend, and you seem to be attracted to the other guy just because he can dance, and you've only known him for maybe an hour or two max.
B) If you don't feel your relationship with your boyfriend will get any more serious, then why continue to date him? Just stay friends so neither of you waste your time and feel so closed off then see other people.
C) If you still want to stay with your boyfriend, then try to find things you both like doing. If you really liked him, you could make it work.
D) Don't date both guys. That's just stupid. Everyone will just end up getting hurt and you'll probably end up alone.

[Code Red]

Wow cool advice already. I am 22. I live in Georgia sorry. Well dating 2 people really isn't a bad thing. I can go out with one one night and the other another night. I have done it before and I will probably do it again. I don't think I have ever had a realantionship I felt would ever be serious. It is kind of hard in a small town like mine. I go down to Florida every now and then, but I usually end up with a girl rather than a guy. I really feel I need to stop that. Neither one of the guys seem like true marriage material. I just want to have fun right now. I will probably start to worry about marriage when I get like 27.

[cg124]

dating 2 people at once isn't that easy and plus it's just plain wrong

[Code Red]

Originally posted by cg124
dating 2 people at once isn't that easy and plus it's just plain wrong

What's wrong about it?

[cg124]

:rolleyes:

[Doomsday]

I just take dating a little seriously, maybe a little TOO seriously, which is why I don't date very much.

That, and I still live with my parents.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by cg124
:rolleyes:

No I am seriuos. What is wrong with going on dates with two different people? Especially if both of us have never said we would date each other exclusivelly?

[cg124]

it's cheating

[Switzer]

Originally posted by Code Red
What's wrong about it?
Getting AIDS

[Lord Summerisle]

I say go with it and date them both, you only live once and you wont be young forever, so go out and party, get laid and wasted.
Youll always have your 30's and 40's to think about what you did wrong in your life and by then you will be too old for anyone to care.

[Switzer]

Just out of curiosity, who are those horny bastards that voted for "Date Me" ?

[Lord Summerisle]

That would be me, and Im just daydreaming about me and her and my girlfriend doing the bad thing.

[Switzer]

Originally posted by Lord Summerisle
That would be me, and Im just daydreaming about me and her and my girlfriend doing the bad thing.
You should be more faithfull, playa

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Switzer
Getting AIDS

You don't get AIDS by going out on dates. Sorry, somebody needs to teach you about these things.

Originally posted by cg124
it's cheating

Cheating? How is it cheating? I go to the movies, I sit at home and watch a movie. How is that Cheating? And besides, if you are not committed to someone (which I am not, I shouldn't even call the guy my boyfriend) how can you cheat on someone. It takes a commitment to make it cheating. If I say I will only date you and only you then you can say it is cheating. I have never said that to him and he has never said it to me.

[ip_guru]

Originally posted by Code Red
I have given him a couple BJ's but that isn't really sex.

Yes it is. Just because the former prez decides it is an easy out for him to say that doesn't make it so.

It's not called Oral Tickling, you know.... :)

[Switzer]

Originally posted by Code Red
You don't get AIDS by going out on dates. Sorry, somebody needs to teach you about these things.




Well:
1)You can get AIDS by eating from dirty or shoddy restaurants
and

2)You said something about having a treesome, now theres nothing wrong about it but theres a very high risk in transmitting diseases thru the intercourse

[Code Red]

Originally posted by ip_guru
Yes it is. Just because the former prez decides it is an easy out for him to say that doesn't make it so.

It's not called Oral Tickling, you know.... :)

Yeah, but it is not intercourse. And besides a couple as in 2 over a 6 month span is not a lot. Both came after long nights of drinking.

[Switzer]

Originally posted by ip_guru
Yes it is. Just because the former prez decides it is an easy out for him to say that doesn't make it so.

It's not called Oral Tickling, you know.... :)
Its also a way of safe sex...oh wait thats a HJ

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Switzer
Well:
1)You can get AIDS by eating from dirty or shoddy restaurants
and


NO YOU CANNOT!!!

http://www.aids.org/info/FAQs.html#casual


Can I get HIV from casual contact (shaking hands, hugging, using a toilet, drinking from the same glass, or the sneezing and coughing of an infected person)?

No. HIV is not transmitted by day to day contact in the home, the workplace, schools, or social settings. HIV is not transmitted through shaking hands, hugging or a casual kiss. You cannot become infected from a toilet seat, a drinking fountain, a doorknob, dishes, drinking glasses, food, or pets.

HIV is a fragile virus that does not live long outside the body. HIV is not an airborne or food borne virus. HIV is present in the blood, semen or vaginal secretions of an infected person and can be transmitted through unprotected vaginal, oral or anal sex or through sharing injection drug needles. (Source: Centers for Disease Control - CDC)

[HeadHunter]

Why is your name Code Red? :p

[Code Red]

Originally posted by HeadHunter
Why is your name Code Red? :p

My favorite movie is "A Few Good Men". Kind of ironic with this thread.

[Citizen Kane]

Hmmm...Polls need more than 20 options. :p

[Switzer]

Originally posted by Code Red
NO YOU CANNOT!!!

http://www.aids.org/info/FAQs.html#casual


Can I get HIV from casual contact (shaking hands, hugging, using a toilet, drinking from the same glass, or the sneezing and coughing of an infected person)?

No. HIV is not transmitted by day to day contact in the home, the workplace, schools, or social settings. HIV is not transmitted through shaking hands, hugging or a casual kiss. You cannot become infected from a toilet seat, a drinking fountain, a doorknob, dishes, drinking glasses, food, or pets.

HIV is a fragile virus that does not live long outside the body. HIV is not an airborne or food borne virus. HIV is present in the blood, semen or vaginal secretions of an infected person and can be transmitted through unprotected vaginal, oral or anal sex or through sharing injection drug needles. (Source: Centers for Disease Control - CDC)
Well, it can be possible...call me naive but if the cook or chef has AIDS and he bleeds on the food, YOU CAN GET AIDS!Its like a 1 in million chance it'll happen but you might the one :o

[LordofKings]

if i have a cut on my arm and another person with HIV has an open cut, and our cuts touch each other, i could get infected that way, right?

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Switzer
Well, it can be possible...call me naive but if the cook or chef has AIDS and he bleeds on the food, YOU CAN GET AIDS!Its like a 1 in million chance it'll happen but you might the one :o

Dude read. AIDS dies almost instantly as soon as it leaves the body. Plus heat would kill any germ. But I do suppose that if the cooks the food then bleeds on it as he sticks the food in your mouth (he has to stick the food in your mouth, because aids dies fast when Oxygen hits it) then maybe there is a slight chance. It is not possible. You need to do a little research before you make stupid statements like that.

[Citizen Kane]

Ok enough of this...

[Switzer]

Originally posted by Code Red
Dude read. AIDS dies almost instantly as soon as it leaves the body. Plus heat would kill any germ. But I do suppose that if the cooks the food then bleeds on it as he sticks the food in your mouth (he has to stick the food in your mouth, because aids dies fast when Oxygen hits it) then maybe there is a slight chance. It is not possible. You need to do a little research before you make stupid statements like that.

I really should think before I say :o

[Code Red]

Yeah how did I get off of the main topic. Ok, so Don't have sex with them because of diseases. Got it, no problem. What about dating both of them? Should I do that? I don't consider it cheating because there is no ring on my finger. But since I have been with the same guy for more than a few months do you think he thinks we are serious?

[Switzer]

if you want to go ahead. But I gotta put my two cents in about this...I'm a guy( not sure you believe me) and I wouldn't go out with a girl thats a Pimpcess and also has another man :o

[LordofKings]

probable...you might want to ask him...

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Switzer
if you want to go ahead. But I gotta put my two cents in about this...I'm a guy( not sure you believe me) and I wouldn't go out with a girl thats a Pimpcess and also has another man :o

Not sure what Pimpcess means. But look at through my eyes. If I go to the movies one night with Drake and then go out the next night with Brock, what does the other have to complain about. Especially if Drake doesn't ask me to do anything the next night. Am I suppose to sit at home while he is out with his friends.

[Switzer]

pimpcess= Pimp + princess lol its stupid but people at my school use this term :o

I don't know...what will the two guys do when they learn about what your up to :o

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Switzer
pimpcess= Pimp + princess lol its stupid but people at my school use this term :o

I don't know...what will the two guys do when they learn about what your up to :o

So if I tell both of them and neither one has a problem then everything is cool.

[Switzer]

I don't know, I'm not those guys

[Baadshah]

Code Red...

If you're dating a guy, you can't be dating other guys on the side, especially when you gave ur first one BJ's. It's cheating because the guys don't know about it, and you're going behind their back. I say, you dump both, come to my place for alittle action :D

[HeadHunter]

Originally posted by Code Red
My favorite movie is "A Few Good Men". Kind of ironic with this thread.

Very :p

[Kitty]

Originally posted by Code Red
So I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He is cool and all, but he just doesn't enjoy the same things I do. I enjoy sports and movies and he just likes to hang around read books and stuff. No big deal. So we haven't had much sex. Matter of fact, we haven't really had sex at all. I have given him a couple BJ's but that isn't really sex. I let him feel my tits once. Well the other night I was at a club and I met a real cute guy. We danced a little, and he could really move. So I started to feel very horny, as in I wanted that guy now, but I had an unwanted vistor and I really didn't want to explain it to the guy so I told him I had to go. He took down my number (he still hasn't called, but he probably will call today, the whole 3-day thing you guys do). Now what do I do about my Boyfriend. He isn't the love of my life but I really like him. Should I date both of them, my boyfriend and I have never asked to just see each other. It just turned out that way. Should I have sex with both of them or should I only have sex with one? Does it make me a slut if I do have sex with both of them? I am really confused. What should I do?
it seems as if you really don't like the first boyfriend as much as you used to when you first went out. of course i could be wrong, and you could still like him the same. as for the other one, basically sounds like you just want the sex from him. whatever, have the sex or don't, no one's stopping you. if you have him as a boyfriend, i highly doubt it'll last. i highly doubt any of these will last from the sounds of it to tell you the truth..sorry..just my stupid opinions right here..

[Doomsday]

Code Red,
How serious are you with this current boyfriend? I mean do you wanna stay with him or is it not that big of a deal?

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Doomsday
Code Red,
How serious are you with this current boyfriend? I mean do you wanna stay with him or is it not that big of a deal?

Its not a big deal. I don't love him or anything. We just go to movies and he comes over and watches movies. Sometimes I talk him into going to a hockey game with me.

[Doomsday]

OK let me rephrase.

If you had to choose between one or the other, which one would it be?

[Kitty]

Originally posted by Code Red
Its not a big deal. I don't love him or anything. We just go to movies and he comes over and watches movies. Sometimes I talk him into going to a hockey game with me.
sounds more like he's a good friend than a boyfriend..

[WDTSF]

Hmm...seems as though I was one of the very few who actually chose a helpful poll option (read: stop picking "Date Me!" you pervs!);)

I chose "break up w/ the book reading boyfriend". If it has been 6 months and
a) the spark has fizzled (though sometimes this can be repaired)
b) you are unhappy in the relationship
c) you are comtemplating cheating this seriously

then I'd say it's time to cut this boyfriend loose. I recommend you stay friends with him, but it seems clear that you don't want to be dating this dude anymore. I dunno, maybe I'm wrong.

But, as a heads up- if you are going to be picky in your relationships (nothin' wrong w/ that), then don't just start dating the next guy you see in a club who you like. Not that you necessarily would, but what I'm trying to say is that while this guy that you met in the bar/club/whatever it was may seem great, if you're looking for a serious, long-term relationship, I may be wrong but I don't think that that guy(the one you danced with) is the one to be with

[JackBauer]

first of all: you are a guy, am i right?

after reading this i think you are some guy with serious emotional problems, probably virgin and you aren't 18 yet. of course i could be wrong, if so, i take all the words back...lol

oh, and one thing yet,...this is such a stupid poll, why all that? no offense but.....wait, this actually is an offense so :D i think you can not be taken seriously

[Kitty]

Originally posted by JackBauer
first of all: you are a guy, am i right?

after reading this i think you are some guy with serious emotional problems, probably virgin and you aren't 18 yet. of course i could be wrong, if so, i take all the words back...lol

oh, and one thing yet,...this is such a stupid poll, why all that? no offense but.....wait, this actually is an offense so :D i think you can not be taken seriously
its a she, and is over eighteen and doesn't sound like they just wanna fool around and i don't even know why this thread was made in the first place..

[WDTSF]

If it were me, I definitely wouldn't have made this thread. I mean, when I need advice I don't turn here (sorry guys!;))

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Kitty
its a she, and is over eighteen and doesn't sound like they just wanna fool around and i don't even know why this thread was made in the first place..

Because I had been thinking about it all day, it was just bothering me. I thought that if I talk about it I would feel better.

Well I talked to Drake tonight and told him about Brock. He didn't care, he agreed with me that we never said we were serious. Said he had thought about trying to make it serious, but since we hadn't had sex we couldn't consider ourselves serious. What a jerk? Is it all about sex? I would have had sex with him eventually, but I wanted to date someone for a while before I got into that kind of a relationship. I went out with a guy for 3 months before Drake and it was nothing but sex. Oh well. The only reason I really brought it up was to just talk about it. I couldn't talk about it at work because all the girls there are married and think I should be too.

[thebtskink]

Let's summarize what we know about Code Red thus far:

--She's 22
--Yet she's old enough to play on a HS basketball team
--She constantly has her period.
--In fact, all she ever talks about is her period, like any of us care.
--She isn't afraid to be a little lewd talking about her love life, like any of us care.

Go away. You're just trying to provoke a reaction by talking about these things, and you're not going to get one.

To the rest of you, ignore her, and she'll go.

[spiderman_2k]

Thats why I havent said anything in this thread Skink....I feel the same way.

[Kitty]

Originally posted by Code Red
Because I had been thinking about it all day, it was just bothering me. I thought that if I talk about it I would feel better.

Well I talked to Drake tonight and told him about Brock. He didn't care, he agreed with me that we never said we were serious. Said he had thought about trying to make it serious, but since we hadn't had sex we couldn't consider ourselves serious. What a jerk? Is it all about sex? I would have had sex with him eventually, but I wanted to date someone for a while before I got into that kind of a relationship. I went out with a guy for 3 months before Drake and it was nothing but sex. Oh well. The only reason I really brought it up was to just talk about it. I couldn't talk about it at work because all the girls there are married and think I should be too.
well you could've still talked to them. i'm not saying that we didnt want you to post up a thread like this on here. but yeah, break it off with the current one and don't have another one. just have fun, you can only be young once anyways, hehe

[JackBauer]

@kitty
usually i don't check threads to offend people, but i can only laugh about this. thats just me. it's kinda hard to believe (for me) that there's a 22 year old girl(woman?) out there with such "big problems" and she can't handle it on her own. it's pathetic, and she doesn't even know.

@red
if you would ask for a realy serious advice you'd get a serious answer and help.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by thebtskink
Let's summarize what we know about Code Red thus far:

--She's 22
--Yet she's old enough to play on a HS basketball team
--She constantly has her period.
--In fact, all she ever talks about is her period, like any of us care.
--She isn't afraid to be a little lewd talking about her love life, like any of us care.

Go away. You're just trying to provoke a reaction by talking about these things, and you're not going to get one.

To the rest of you, ignore her, and she'll go.

First off. I play on the local YMCA team. Go back and read again. I have been out of high school for awhile. I really didn't say much about my period this time only to let you guys know it was the same weekend. Third, I have not been that lewd. I have seen worse. Please don't make up stuff.

[JackBauer]

oh and even though you're gonna hate me i just couldn't hold back and i had to post my opinion because of such stupidity.

btw, i agree with Skink and i voted "you're a slut", either that or you're a guy pretending to be a woman...and you probably enjoy this sick game...but hey, i could be wrong...;)

[Kitty]

Originally posted by Code Red
First off. I play on the local YMCA team. Go back and read again. I have been out of high school for awhile. I really didn't say much about my period this time only to let you guys know it was the same weekend. Third, I have not been that lewd. I have seen worse. Please don't make up stuff.
i think he means by lewd as the way you presented yourself in the first post, talking basically about having sex. yeah, since we have a resolution to this problem, can we kill this thread?

[Code Red]

And only a couple of the options aren't legit. I say 16 of them are what I think some people would say. You guys are too serious. The name of the thread is what to do. Not hard to tell I am going to ask for advice.

[JustAnAlias]

I was gonna go with "Get over Yourself" but it wasn't an option?

[JackBauer]

"date me" :rolleyes: wtf?

i think thats the bottom line

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Kitty
i think he means by lewd as the way you presented yourself in the first post, talking basically about having sex. yeah, since we have a resolution to this problem, can we kill this thread?

Well, I was just trying to present how I was feeling. I could have said worse. Any way, I know where not to ask for advice now. You guys do nothing but play games and make fun of people that just want to talk about something. I saw threads like answer and ask and I thought Hey I can type out what has been on my mind today. I guess this is the way you treat newbies.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by JackBauer
"date me" :rolleyes: wtf?

i think thats the bottom line

Well 6 people disagree with you.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by JustAnAlias
I was gonna go with "Get over Yourself" but it wasn't an option?

See polls need more than 20 options.

[Kitty]

Originally posted by Code Red
Well, I was just trying to present how I was feeling. I could have said worse. Any way, I know where not to ask for advice now. You guys do nothing but play games and make fun of people that just want to talk about something. I saw threads like answer and ask and I thought Hey I can type out what has been on my mind today. I guess this is the way you treat newbies.
well we don't all play games and make fun of people. i'm certainly not making fun of you and i'm sorry that some people on here sometimes can act childish..

[JustAnAlias]

Yes that is the way they treat newbies, if you're lucky enough to be acknowledged.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Kitty
well we don't all play games and make fun of people. i'm certainly not making fun of you and i'm sorry that some people on here sometimes can act childish..

I agree. Sorry I did not mean to lump you in with the rest of them. Some of them were really helpful. It was nice to just get my thoughts out. I shouldn't have made it a poll. Just wrote out what I was feeling.

[JackBauer]

Originally posted by Code Red
Well 6 people disagree with you.

because you mentioned giving a BJ and they never got one.
and i'm not childish at all, the poll was like some bad joke and thats what i'm doing...jokin' around...ok,ok, i'm out

[Rogue]

Well, this topic certainly deviated from the subject. Get it back on track or it's going to get closed. (Also, no more disgusting arguments about AIDS, oral sex or anything like that. Keep in mind, we do have younger posters and we don't want anyone to be offended.)

[Citizen Kane]

Well, I wouldn't quite call the arguments disgusting, but you're right, there are younger people here (I've seen as young as 12) and they don't need to be exposed to mature subjects like these.

That's what PM's/IM's are for, folks.

[Rogue]

I thought I handled it fine without assistance, Kane.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Rogue
Well, this topic certainly deviated from the subject. Get it back on track or it's going to get closed. (Also, no more disgusting arguments about AIDS, oral sex or anything like that. Keep in mind, we do have younger posters and we don't want anyone to be offended.)

I really didn't mean to turn the topic into a bad one about AIDS, but it seems that some people are little confused on what can and cannot trasmit AIDS, I feel it was important to set the record straight. But don't worry. You can close this thing, I got my advice now I am just being made fun of. Can you talk to the people that were making up lies about me and trying to hurt my feelings.

[WDTSF]

Red- I'm sorry that you're feeling bad. I hope my advice was helpful. Also, when I commented that I would not have made this thread myself, I meant that only as passing comment; a personal opinion. I did not mean to sound like the other attacks that have been thrown at you. I read over a few of the recent posts and I think many are a bit ridiculous.

[JackBauer]

Originally posted by Code Red
Can you talk to the people that were making up lies about me and trying to hurt my feelings.

no1 is trying to hurt your feelings. you made a poll i voted on it, gave my opinion and i told honestly what i think. well, if you feel offended by the 2 "you're a slut"-voters, then it's your own fault. why making such a sentence anyhow?
this is gettin ridiculous, i'll just say sorry and goodbye, although i don't need to justify myself

*leaves thread*http://forum.rpg-ring.com/forum/images/smilies/2/alien.gif

[freakyplatypus]

Hey Hey - Code Red, hows it going?
You come here often?
[/hitting on]

[Code Red]

Originally posted by JackBauer
no1 is trying to hurt your feelings. you made a poll i voted on it, gave my opinion and i told honestly what i think. well, if you feel offended by the 2 "you're a slut"-voters, then it's your own fault. why making such a sentence anyhow?
this is gettin ridiculous, i'll just say sorry and goodbye, although i don't need to justify myself

*leaves thread*http://forum.rpg-ring.com/forum/images/smilies/2/alien.gif

Well, I was talking about thebtskink. He was the one making up lies.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by freakyplatypus
Hey Hey - Code Red, hows it going?
You come here often?

Not really. Maybe I shouldn't.

[spiderman_2k]

Originally posted by freakyplatypus
Hey Hey - Code Red, hows it going?
You come here often?
[/hitting on]

Dude, You didn't turn the [Hitting On] Tag on...You only put the end of it...It wont work now.

[freakyplatypus]

Originally posted by Code Red
Not really. Maybe I shouldn't.

No, you're supposed to be all flirtacious back. I clearly had the hitting on tag in use! Wait.... what's that spiderman? I didn't put the first one on??? Crap.

[spiderman_2k]

*Shakes head...You should always check your tags before you post...;)

[Necross]

I think you guys who are flaming Code Red should just stop. I don't care what you post here, you ALL KNOW that if you had two girls you liked and both wanted to date you, you would definetly date them both for a while until one found out. I can't speak for the women, there are plenty like Code Red, but plenty aren't. Personally though I think you should tell them both how you feel and see what they think. Sometimes people are willing to let you date other people while in a relationship, that way if you find someone else you like more, you know it wasn't meant to be.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Necross
I think you guys who are flaming Code Red should just stop. I don't care what you post here, you ALL KNOW that if you had two girls you liked and both wanted to date you, you would definetly date them both for a while until one found out. I can't speak for the women, there are plenty like Code Red, but plenty aren't. Personally though I think you should tell them both how you feel and see what they think. Sometimes people are willing to let you date other people while in a relationship, that way if you find someone else you like more, you know it wasn't meant to be.

You are right. I let Drake know earlier, but Brock has not called yet. I hope he does soon.

[freakyplatypus]

Heh. Brock. She's talking about me, I suppose.

[*Kelleigh*]

Buy some books?

[Kyle Katarn]

You live in Georgia? I live in NC...

Uhh, huh huh huh. Come, to Butt-Head....huh huh huh! :D

[Doomsday]

Hey Beavis, this chick has like 3 boobs.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by *Kelleigh*
Buy some books?

I just understood this. Sorry for the bump.

[Tenafly Viper]

You know what, even though this thread has taken on a harsh tone, I'm going to play along for sh-ts & giggles.
But first I have a question Code Red, would it be fair to say that Drake (that's the book guy right) is less masculine in appearance, then Brock (if I f-cked the names up, just reverse them)?

[freakyplatypus]

Go with Brock. That name never fails.

I haven't heard too many other people named Brock, the closest I have is Brock Landers. And he's just a figment of my imagination!

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Tenafly Viper
You know what, even though this thread has taken on a harsh tone, I'm going to play along for sh-ts & giggles.
But first I have a question Code Red, would it be fair to say that Drake (that's the book guy right) is less masculine in appearance, then Brock (if I f-cked the names up, just reverse them)?

No. You were right. Why do you ask? You don't think Drake is gay do you? He hasn't really complained about the no sex thing. Maybe he is just using me as a showroom girlfriend to keep his charade up.

[Tenafly Viper]

Originally posted by Code Red
You don't think Drake is gay do you? Ahhh.....NO that thought never crossed my mind.

So you're saying neither is more masculine, in either appearance or your perception then the other.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Tenafly Viper
Ahhh.....NO that thought never crossed my mind.

So you're saying neither is more masculine, in either appearance or your perception then the other.

No I am saying Brock is more Masculine than Drake.

[Tenafly Viper]

Ok my bad, I didn’t get that from the previous post.

I have one more question, and if you don’t want to answer it I completely understand. But trust me I am going somewhere with all this, my question is “are you currently taking a oral contraceptive (the pill)?”, or do you practice another form of safe sex/birth control, when you do decide the time is right to have intercourse. Like I said if you don't want to answer just say Tenafly that's too personal, and we'll leave it at that.

[HeadHunter]

So why are you Code Red...wait you told me didnt you :p

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Tenafly Viper
Ok my bad, I didn’t get that from the previous post.

I have one more question, and if you don’t want to answer it I completely understand. But trust me I am going somewhere with all this, my question is “are you currently taking a oral contraceptive (the pill)?”, or do you practice another form of safe sex/birth control, when you do decide the time is right to have intercourse. Like I said if you don't want to answer just say Tenafly that's too personal, and we'll leave it at that.

Well, I haven't had "sex" in a while, but I make the guy use a condom.

[Tenafly Viper]

Like I said yesterday for the pure clinical sh-ts & giggles of it. You sound as if you are in fact suffering from the female equivalent of “thinking with the wrong head”.

In a recent study done at St. Andrews University, psychologists found that women are genetically predisposed to unfaithfulness during their most fertile point in the menstrual cycle. The study found that women were often attracted to more feminine featured males only during their less fertile time. These types of men were perceived to be kinder, gentler, and more cooperative males, and so better long term partners.
But these same women during their most fertile point in the menstrual cycle showed a dramatic difference in choice of mate. These women exhibited a strong (and often subconscious) sexual attraction to the more masculine looking males. It was concluded that these types of men were subconsciously perceived to be healthier and stronger, all genetically desirable traits that they would undoubtedly pass along to their children. The study also found that women who used oral contraceptive, which inhibits fertility, showed no marked difference in preference what so ever.
Strangely enough an unrelated study seems to support these results. Scientific research into hormones found that women normally find the smell of male hormones unpleasant, except (you guessed it) during their most fertile point in the menstrual cycle. Masculine looking men naturally have a higher level of male hormone.

So you see you’re not to blame at all, it’s your period's fault. You're just a slave to your need to conceive. :p :D

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Tenafly Viper
Like I said yesterday for the pure clinical sh-ts & giggles of it. You sound as if you are in fact suffering from the female equivalent of “thinking with the wrong head”.

In a recent study done at St. Andrews University, psychologists found that women are genetically predisposed to unfaithfulness during their most fertile point in the menstrual cycle. The study found that women were often attracted to more feminine featured males only during their less fertile time. These types of men were perceived to be kinder, gentler, and more cooperative males, and so better long term partners.
But these same women during their most fertile point in the menstrual cycle showed a dramatic difference in choice of mate. These women exhibited a strong (and often subconscious) sexual attraction to the more masculine looking males. It was concluded that these types of men were subconsciously perceived to be healthier and stronger, all genetically desirable traits that they would undoubtedly pass along to their children. The study also found that women who used oral contraceptive, which inhibits fertility, showed no marked difference in preference what so ever.
Strangely enough an unrelated study seems to support these results. Scientific research into hormones found that women normally find the smell of male hormones unpleasant, except (you guessed it) during their most fertile point in the menstrual cycle. Masculine looking men naturally have a higher level of male hormone.

So you see you’re not to blame at all, it’s your period's fault. You're just a slave to your need to conceive. :p :D


Wow. Do you have a link to this story? I would like to read more, it seems you have really done a good job of diagnosing what was going on. Come to think about it, I really don't feel like talking to Brock anymore. He called the other day and sounded like a complete jerk who only wanted to have sex.

Thanks for finding the above article.

[EvilDeadNDN]

man they have some butch names...

Brock and Drake.

Drake sounds like a hardass to me. all in the name alone.

*shrugs*

[Tenafly Viper]

Originally posted by EvilDeadNDN
Brock and Drake.They sound made up to me. :p But anyway........

Code Red, I really don't have a link, most of what I wrote was paraphrased from a much more detailed article I read a while ago, and isn't meant to be taken too seriously. If you want you can look into Evolutionary Psychology.

Am I the only one who sees the appropriateness in the name "Code Red" as applied to this thread? LOL :D

sorry about that......

[EvilDeadNDN]

when I saw code red, I thought emergency or the drink.

crazy how the world works.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by EvilDeadNDN
Brock and Drake.



Yeah, I got a picture of Drake if you want to see him. He isn't too butch.

http://img48.photobucket.com/albums/v147/Codered1/rebecca_and_drake.jpg


Not too butch is he? This is back in High School. We were just friends back then

[Tenafly Viper]

Originally posted by Code Red
Last edited by Code Red on 04-08-2004 at 05:07 PM You caught the date stamp on that pic as well huh...... LMAO :applaud: nice save.

[Tenafly Viper]

Drake?

Isn't that Brock?

//img48.photobucket.com/albums/v147/Codered1/rebecca_and_brock.jpg

:p ;)

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Tenafly Viper
You caught the date stamp on that pic as well huh...... LMAO :applaud: nice save.

I new someone would say something. No need trying to explain it later.

[Code Red]

Originally posted by Tenafly Viper
Drake?

Isn't that Brock?

//img48.photobucket.com/albums/v147/Codered1/rebecca_and_brock.jpg

:p ;)

Nope it is Drake.